Level of self confidence ∝ Quality of life
3 factors that interfere with self-confidence:
- Doubt & Fear
- Feelings of guilt & unworthiness
- Feelings of inferiority & undeservingness
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Laws to help Elevate confidence!
Law of Cause & Effect: For every effect in our life, there is a cause/reason.
How to use this Law: See what effects you want to see in your life, follow a person who has already manifested it. Do what they did and you’ll cause the effect to happen.
Thoughts are causes and conditions are effect!
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Law of Belief: Whatever you believe with feelings, becomes your reality.
If you strongly believe it, then you will see ONLY things that align consistent with your belief.
The belief which are based on false information, not on reality will lead to destruction. we ACT based on our believes. worst sort of beliefs are self-limiting ones.
Do deep analysis of your beliefs, edit them and choose consciously!, don’t sell yourself short.
Belief = action = results
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Law of Expectation: whatever you expect with confidence becomes your self-fulfilling prophecy.
The way you talk about how things are going to turn out in the future is setting the coarse of it.
- Expect the best of yourself
- Expect the best of other people
- Expect the best of people who look up to you
when you expect great of people, they rise up to your standards.
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Law of attraction: Each person is a living magnet.
Thought + emotion = Force of Energy
This force attracts people and resources and events.
If you think negative, expect negative, that is what you will attract. Don’t talk about negative at all. keep your mind on what you want and in a very positive environment. Think about what makes you happy, People that you love, Think about success experiences.
If you are happy and enter a room. All heads turn towards you because they can feel the vibrations.
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Law of Correspondence: As within so without.
All world is a mirror that reflects back to you, your dominant thoughts.
Ask yourself, what is in me that’s causing something in my environment?
Garbage in, garbage out.
Good in, Good out.
sometimes challenging 1 thought can change your entire life.
Debug your software, misconceptions, feelings. If you change How you interpret things to yourslef, Your attitude towards things change.
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Law of Habit: Whatever you do repeatedly over and over again becomes your habit.
You become what you think most of the time. Get in the habit of joy, positive attitude.
self-concepts: your beliefs, doubts, feelings, fears throughout your life makes you, you!
Assess your mini-self-concepts- for everything in life. For how you weigh and dress. Your ability to tell stories, Your humor, Family, your parents. everything.- this is your thermostat.
10 % above your thermostat – you get into give-away/ wasting habit.
10% below your thermostat- You scramble. becomes your comfort zone, you may not be happy but you are comfortable.
self concept made up of:
- Your Self-Ideal– hopes, values, ideals, goals, dreams.
- Your self-image: The way you see yourself, think about yourself.
- your self-esteem: emotional part of personality, the power source, ow much you like yourself. it determines your creativity, persuasiveness, influence, sense of humor.
- Actions consistent with your ideal = self esteem increase
- Actions not consistent= less self-esteem
- High self-esteem = high efficacy = high success
repeat- I like myself, I am the best!
when you like yourself more, you like others more and hence others like you more. If you have one negative emotion, that will sabotage your entire life. Stop blaming yourself, stop justifying. just accept then let go and forgive. Prolonged confrontations to fears leads to body sickness- ulcers and cancers.
- forgive your parents100 % for every mistake they made
- Forgive any relation you had that didn’t work out. let them go, you set yourself free.
- Forgive everybody else that has hurt you in anyway- let it go
- Forgive yourself- every foolish, idiotic, wicked thing you did. forgive yourself as you are a new person now.
No negativity towards anybody.
we learn to be helpless- worst thing to learn.- Unlearn it!
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